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durant

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2015-06-04 20-47-24

Could use some honest, unbiased advice. I've been single & celibate now since January of x. Without going into a deep level of personal detail, I'll leave it at I've had a crappy track record with relationships. It's left me with a rather outspoken & somewhat negative/untrusting opinion of women in general and combined with my own bipolar disorder, it seems like women often shut me down before even giving me a chance. To further add to the frustration, a lot of the time women who do come onto me only seem to want sex, even if it means they lie to me about thier intentions granny sex personal in order to get it. What does a guy like myself do who is "ready to settle down" (yet I'm financially/vocationally lacking as I'm on disability for my bipolar disorder) to meet decent women who are ready to settle down and not just looking for a badboy to sleep with? I realize that the badboy image attracts the badgirls yet without the means to better myself vocationally & financially, what are the best means for a guy to meet women in Fort Collins? I'm in my late x's, good looking, smoker, but I'm very shy until I'm comfortable around someone new. Does my level of open- women search dating for parents about this express some subconscious insecurity or something that scares decent women off or what?Thoughts? Opinions? ~Thanks
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chowning

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2015-06-13 8-38-42-

You're not ready to settle down. You have to work on your own trust issues and such before you will be. In the meantime I trot out my standard. You want to meet people,find something fun that you like to do and do it. Be it joining a book club,dance class,or yes, I met a nice girl bowling.(She was straight though) Focus on having fun and learning not all women should invoke negative feelings,the rest will come in it's time.
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wotring

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2015-06-22 18-58-23

Re: You're not ready to settle down. In regards to my trust "issues" my problem seems to be this. I give any woman I'd potentially date a fair shot, however I do know what to look for as far as red women search dating for seniors factors in dating. I'm straight-forward to a fault in the sense that when I notice these things I bring them up in a polite manner, yet if they continue I flat out people on it. I'm like that with every The biggest thing though is that comes off to a lot of people as anger, due to the intensity of my disorder, even though I don't women search dating for sex or anything like that when discussing serious things. I'd say the only trust factor though is that once I notice a red women search dating for single parents factor, I go into women search dating for singles a women search dating for teens -alert women search dating friendship about such things. Not that I'm "looking" for flaws or red flags, but that analyze every little thing and then notice all of the things I wasn't or may not have been paying attention to. A lot of people simply can't handle that, because I'm the type of guy who won't hesitate to bring to them up for discussion. I can see from an outside point of view though how that would add to the "intensity" factor. From a personal standpoint though I'd just rather see things resolved, get both people's views on a situation and then move forward like grown adults, or agree to disagree and go our seperate ways. In a sense I'm too independant for my own good like that I guess.
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2015-07-10 9-19-14-

Self-fulfilling prophecy. If you go out of your way looking for red flags,you will find them. It's kind of a general thing you're saying though. For some a red women search dating guy could be chewing with your mouth open. For me it's lying. And yes,scrutinizing people does tend to get on their bad side,even if it is the truth,you don't have to share everything or always be critical of people's behavior. Nois perfect,if you expect everyone to be then you will always be disappointed.
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  • carlyle

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    2015-08-19 6-53-18-

    Self-fulfilling prophecy You havegood points there, as far as expectations go, my only real expectation as far as a relationship goes is that the woman is as honest and straight-forward as I am. With the type of women I've attracted in the past (and seem to in general), that also seems to play into it as well.
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    morais

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    2015-09-13 9-11-28-

    go to Ft Collins... have a coffee... walk in the mall.. bookstore... etc. if you see a girl you like start with, Hi, how are you? next, acknowledge her answer and then ask... are you from Ft Collins? then take it from there
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    buchmiller

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    2015-10-12 17-45-31

    Re: Go to Ft. Collins Thanks, the problem I always seem to have is getting over the approaching someone part. As a guy I actually prefer to BE approached, it's a bit easier that way and conversation isn't as awkward.
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